God’s Presence in Our Grief (Part 2)

Posted on February 19, 2025 by Vanna

“I will be glad and rejoice in your love, for you saw my affliction and knew the anguish of my soul.”

God sees us. He knows the depths of our grief. And just as He has carried countless others through loss, He promises to carry us too.

A Story of Faith Through Loss: Coretta Scott King

One powerful example of strength in grief is the story of Coretta Scott King,

the wife of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Though known for her quiet yet powerful activism, she was also a woman who endured immense personal loss.

Grief is not a journey that ends quickly. It lingers, weaving through our days and nights, often resurfacing when we least expect it. But in the midst of sorrow, God’s love remains constant, steadying us as we navigate the pain. Psalm 31:7 (NIV) continues to remind us of this truth:

When Dr. King was assassinated in 1968, Coretta was left to raise their four children alone while also carrying the weight of his legacy. In an instant, she lost not only her husband but also her closest partner in faith and purpose. Her grief was overwhelming, yet she did not allow it to paralyze her.

Instead, she turned to God for strength. Just days after her husband’s death, she stood before a grieving nation, advocating for peace and justice—values deeply rooted in her faith. Through prayer, Scripture, and an unwavering belief that God still had a purpose for her life, she found the courage to move forward.

Coretta did not suppress her sorrow; she allowed herself to grieve. But she also trusted that God saw her pain and would sustain her. She dedicated the rest of her life to continuing the work she and her husband had started, proving that grief does not have to define us—it can also refine us.

Trusting God in Our Own Grief

Coretta Scott King’s story teaches us that grief and purpose can coexist. God does not rush our healing, but He does walk with us through it. Psalm 31:7 reassures us that:

  1. God acknowledges our pain – “You saw my affliction.” Our grief matters to Him.
  2. God understands our sorrow – “You knew the anguish of my soul.” He does not dismiss or minimize our heartbreak.
  3. God’s love sustains us – “I will be glad and rejoice in your love.” Even when joy feels distant, His love remains near.

A Prayer for Those Still Grieving

Heavenly Father, I come to You with my broken heart. Thank You for seeing my pain and understanding the depths of my sorrow. Help me to trust in Your love, even when grief feels unbearable. Strengthen me as You strengthened those before me, and remind me that I am never alone. Amen.

Closing Thoughts

Grief is not something to “get over”—it’s something to walk through. And as we walk, God walks with us. He sees our pain, just as He saw Coretta’s. He knows our sorrow, just as He knew David’s. And He loves us too much to leave us there.

If you are grieving today, hold onto the truth of Psalm 31:7—God sees you, knows your pain, and will never leave you.

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— The Clay Pot Misfit

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A Day of Remembrance and God’s Faithful Presence

Posted on October 31, 2024 by Vanna

Key Scripture:
“Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.” — Psalm 23:4 (NIV)

Today, while many celebrate Halloween with candy and costumes, my heart holds a different connotation for this day. Much like December 7, 1941—the day of the attack on Pearl Harbor, which President Roosevelt declared a “day that would go down in infamy”—October 31 carries a weight of its own in my heart.

Sixteen years ago today, on October 31, 2008, my father lost his battle with multiple myeloma. Sixteen years is a long time, yet somehow, the memories feel as vivid as if it were just yesterday. I can hardly believe that so much time has passed, but even with the years, the sense of loss still feels surreal.

Not a day goes by without something that reminds me of my father—his presence, his voice, his love. His absence is deeply felt, and the space he left in my life is something that will always remain. But as I walk this path of grief, I am reminded of the words from Psalm 23:4: “Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me.”

In the valley of grief, God’s presence has been my comfort. He walks with me, sustaining me when the weight feels unbearable. In moments when memories flood my heart, I am reassured that God is not distant; He is right here, in the valley, offering His strength and comfort. His rod and staff guide me, and though my father is no longer here, my Heavenly Father is ever near.

Grief has no timeline, but God’s presence is a constant anchor. Remembering my father brings a bittersweet mix of joy and sorrow, but I find peace knowing that God’s love and strength are always with me. In His care, I find the courage to carry on, reassured that I am never alone in my sorrow.

Ending Prayer:
Lord, today I remember my father and all that he meant to me. The pain of his absence remains, but I thank You for being my comfort in the darkest valley. Thank You for walking with me, for sustaining me, and for the promise that I am never alone. Help me and all those who still feel that lingering absence from death to lean on You and find peace in Your constant presence. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Author, ‘The Claypot Misfit’

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Strength in Times of Weakness

Posted on October 5, 2024 by Vanna

Key Scripture: “But He said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for My power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.” — 2 Corinthians 12:9 (NIV)

When grief strikes, it’s easy to feel weak, overwhelmed, and drained. We may wonder how we will find the strength to keep moving forward, to face each day when the weight of loss feels so heavy. But in 2 Corinthians 12:9, we are given a powerful reminder: in our weakness, God’s strength shines brightest.

The apostle Paul speaks of a personal struggle—a “thorn” in his flesh—that he repeatedly asked God to remove. But instead of taking the pain away, God gave him something greater: His grace. In Paul’s moment of weakness, God didn’t leave him to suffer alone. Instead, He used Paul’s vulnerability to demonstrate the fullness of His power.

In times of grief, we can often feel that same sense of weakness. Yet it is in these very moments that God’s grace becomes more than enough. We may not have the strength to endure on our own, but God’s power sustains us. His grace fills the gaps when our hearts feel empty, and His strength becomes our source of resilience.

When we feel like we can’t take another step, we can lean on the truth that Christ’s power rests on us. It is in our weakest moments that His strength lifts us up, giving us the courage to face tomorrow. We don’t have to be strong on our own—His strength is made perfect in our weakness.

Ending Prayer: Lord, I come to You in my weakness, knowing that I can’t carry this burden of grief on my own. I ask for Your strength to sustain me and Your grace to fill me. Help me to trust that even in my darkest moments, Your power is working in my life. Thank You for reminding me that I don’t have to be strong alone because Your grace is more than enough. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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Smiles

Posted on August 25, 2023 by Vanna
Enjoy life’s Special Moments

Life comprises a sequence of peaks and valleys, moments of elation intertwined with instances of despondency. There are celebrations and disappointments. There are new births and deaths. Amidst optimism and desolation, the unwavering constant remains in the love of God. Not every day mirrors the previous one. Following a significant loss, it seemed improbable that I would ever find joy again. Oh! How inappropriate it felt. to even entertain the notion of happiness, smiles, and laughter given that my teenage son was no longer. Presently, I’m thrilled that my personal encounters failed to determine my destination. A piece of my heart will perpetually remain broken, forever etched with fractures. Yet, the memories of my son persist within me, within the pages of my book “Pursuing Hope: The Story of Justin Hanna,” and my writings. (http://www.verrettministry.com) Today, I embrace moments to smile without hesitation. Occasionally, my laughter is so robust, I can hardly speak! 😂 I urge you to embrace life wholeheartedly, cultivate gratitude, and daily take a walk on the SMILE SIDE! 😀

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The Abyss of Grief

Posted on August 28, 2017 by Vanna

Then from the cold abyss a cold hand appeared ,
and spellbound he watched as this mysterious hand takes flight,
and it was aimed at his heart.
At the threshold of his chest the hand points a finger and inserts in through his left rib cage,
and it finds its desired target, and with the flick of a wrist his heart was frozen.
Once it was frozen broken fragmented pieces of his heart where more visible, and it just simply shattered and that mysterious hand returned to the abyss as softly as it had come

 

Often grief comes on, unexpectedly, and it feels like you got punched by Floyd Mayweather.

Welcome to the sidelines with Donavan. Grief can be an abyss and together we will learn how to navigate it.

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Death…the enemy

Posted on August 28, 2014 by Vanna

Today is a beautiful day. The sun is shining…it’s 75 degrees…purrr-fect! Then I get to work and before I enter the building, the news is received…a co-worker was killed in a motorcycle accident. Instantly, my heart sinks. I say…What? I can’t believe that! As soon as the words are spoken, immediately another thought comes which says, I ‘can’ believe. It happened with my son….my baby; suddenly…without warning. Death happens all of the time but neither the surprise nor the sting ever goes away. I look forward to the day when death will be swallowed up in victory.

Paul couldn’t have said it any better than he did in 1 Corinthians 15:55-58:

“Where, O death, is your victory?
Where, O death, is your sting?”i
The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law.
But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.

Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.”

Let’s be faithful and choose to live for Jesus everyday.

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The memories of Justin are still alive!

Posted on March 24, 2014 by Vanna

This past weekend marked the two year anniversary since my youngest son, Justin passed away. It was difficult…which was no surprise. I expected that.  God is the only one who really understands the depth of  my pain…or the pain of anyone who is going through . The grieving process is so personal…so individualized.  We may both be separated by death from a child or other loved one but your journey through grief is not necessary the same path that I take. And guess what?  That’s Ok.

However, for me, it is a beautiful thing to have love, support and encouragement from others; to know that I matter to you and how I feel matters even though you don’t really understand what I’m going through or the depth of it.  Donavan, my oldest son, was here with me and two of Justin’s friends Richard and Ephriam along with the prayers and support of other family members, co-workers and friends.

I had a thought for and ‘in memory’ of project. The thought became a prayer, which became a written plan, which became The Justin’s Way Project, which became my mission to accomplish and God blessed it all.   The JW project was inspired by memories of Justin…how he gave his coat away to a homeless lady in Huntsville…shared funds with others in need….marched in Montgomery against Alabama’s  HB 56 law which for one would separate immigrant parents from their children.  I was inspired to reach out to Daphine Tedder at The Manna House.  This local  soup kitchen is open 5 days a week to assist the homeless and needy by providing  breakfast and lunch. By God’s Grace and with help from many of you and  in a short time period, I was able to raise and present over $700.00 to The Manna House!  To God Be The Glory!!                                                                 Vanessa and Daphne 32214           securedownload 

Vanessa and Daphine                                                     Donavan, Daphine and Vanessa        securedownload  From the center-clockwise: Vanessa, Richard, Donavan and Ephriam

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A Journey Through Pain and Healing

Posted on March 29, 2025 by Vanna

A couple of weeks ago, I fell and hurt my ankle. I went to the ER, where I was told it was a very bad sprain that should heal in about five days. However, despite trying to maneuver through the pain, each step was agonizing, and at times, I nearly fell from the shock I felt in my ankle and leg. After two weeks of coping with the pain, I noticed some improvement in certain areas but saw no progress in others. The pain was not only persisting but also spreading.

Eventually, I returned to the ER, only to discover that in addition to the severe sprain, I had also fractured a part of my leg. My prognosis for healing now ranges from 2 to 8 weeks, with no clear timeline for when I’ll feel completely normal again.

As I reflect on this journey, I can’t help but draw a parallel between the healing process of my injury and the process of dealing with grief. When we lose loved ones, it’s as if we experience a loss of mobility. Day by day, we try to navigate the ins and outs of what has been lost. We attempt to cope, limping through life much like I have with my swollen ankle and fractured leg. We move forward, but the pain cuts deep—much like a fracture.

It’s often difficult to think about a loved one no longer being with us. We miss the tangible expressions of their love, and that absence can make us writhe in emotional pain, much like the physical agony of an injury.

“But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary, and they shall walk, and not faint.”
— Isaiah 40:31 (KJV)

Just as my leg requires time and care to heal properly, grief also requires time, patience, and trust in God. The healing of the heart takes longer than we expect, and often, just when we think we are making progress, a wave of sorrow can hit us, setting us back. But Isaiah 40:31 offers a beautiful promise. Those who wait on the Lord, even in the depths of sorrow and pain, will find renewed strength. They will soar above their anguish, finding hope where there was once despair.

Ellen G. White on Pain and Healing in Grief

Ellen G. White provides profound insight into the nature of grief and the comfort that God offers to the brokenhearted. She writes:

“The path to freedom from sorrow is through the sorrow itself. God leads His children by a way that they know not; but He does not forget or forsake them.”
— The Ministry of Healing, p. 473

Grief can feel isolating and endless, but the journey through it is not without purpose. God walks beside us, even when we cannot see His presence. He allows us to endure sorrow so that, in time, we will develop a deeper trust in Him and emerge stronger.

Restoring Strength and Faith

Much like the healing process of my leg, grief requires adjustments, rest, and time. When a physical injury occurs, we often have to slow down and allow our bodies to recover. In the same way, we need to give ourselves permission to grieve fully. We need to lean on the everlasting arms of Jesus and trust that, although we may feel weak today, His strength is made perfect in our weakness.

Ellen G. White reminds us:

“Though the night of sorrow may linger, joy will come in the morning. The cloud may hang heavy over the soul, but faith pierces the darkness and leads us to the throne of grace.”
— Steps to Christ, p. 124

When we grieve, it feels like we are walking through the night, stumbling with tears and questions. Yet, faith pierces that darkness and carries us toward a brighter morning. It is in those moments of surrender, where we place our brokenness at the feet of Jesus, that we begin to see glimpses of renewal.

Walking Stronger Through the Pain

I’m still dealing with the pain, and I don’t know exactly how things will be once the fracture heals. But I do know that, in time, I will walk better and stronger than I do now. Likewise, no matter how deep the wounds of grief cut into the fabric of your soul—causing you to stumble and fall—given enough time, you will be able to walk stronger and more resolutely than you are today.

Isaiah 40:31 does not promise that the journey will be easy, but it assures us that those who wait on the Lord will walk and not faint. They will move forward, carried by divine strength that transforms sorrow into renewal. Grief may leave scars, just as physical injuries do, but those scars can become testimonies of healing, resilience, and faith.

As we continue this journey through pain and healing, may we hold on to the blessed promise that one day, we will soar above our heartache. Until then, let us trust in the One who sustains us, renews our strength, and leads us toward renewal.

— The Clay Pot Misfit

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Holding On to the Blessed Hope

Posted on March 24, 2025 by Vanna

March 23, 2012 — 13 Years Today, and Yet It Feels Like Yesterday

A day in history for me that will go down in infamy. I’m remembering all those days ago, praying for a baby brother. I remember the day you were born, the first time I saw you in the hospital, and the countless hours we spent playing swords, Xbox, wrestling, and more. I remember the ups and downs of having an annoying little brother but also the joys of having a close companion to grow up with.

I remember the hours we spent playing with our cousin/sister, Ariel. I remember you calling me each night after I got off work, saying, “Bro, I’m hungry. Feed me. The food at the café was nasty,” or that you had overslept for dinner. I’d give anything for those days again, and I’d give anything to hear your voice once more.

I remember the last day I saw you. If only I could turn back the hands of time — there’s so much I’d say to you. There’s so much I remember, and it makes me feel overwhelmed with emotions of both sadness and happiness. But this, too, I remember well: you were a young man who was maturing physically, emotionally, and spiritually. And I hold on to the blessed hope that one day I’ll see you again, when you’re caught up as Paul says in 1 Thessalonians 4:16:

“For the Lord Himself will descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of an archangel, and with the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first.”

It still feels numb to think that you’re not here anymore, but I feel joy in the blessed hope that we, as brothers, will be reunited again. As the song says:

“But until then my heart will go on singing,
Until then with joy I’ll carry on,
Until the day my eyes behold that city,
Until the day God calls me home.”

Holding On to the Promise

The pain of grief has a way of making time feel both fast and slow. It’s been 13 years, but the ache still feels fresh. Yet, through the waves of sadness, I am reminded of the promise that Jesus Himself gave us. In John 14:1-3, He said:

“Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.”

Grief can often feel like a heavy weight, pressing down on the soul. But God, in His infinite mercy, gives us the hope of reunion. He reminds us that this life is not the end. Just as Jesus conquered death and rose again, those who sleep in Christ will rise again. This promise breathes life into the weary soul, reminding us that although our loved ones are no longer physically here, their story is not over.

Living in the In-Between

As I walk through life with this void in my heart, I am learning to live in the tension of sorrow and hope. I grieve, but not as one without hope (1 Thessalonians 4:13). The pain of loss is real, but the promise of eternal life is even more real.

In her writings, Ellen G. White reminds us of this truth:

“To the weary and heavy-laden, to those who have borne the burden and heat of the day, the rest is promised. It is not the rest that comes through inaction, for in the Father’s house His servants shall serve Him. But it is rest, rest in bearing the burdens and in performing the duties of this life.” — The Desire of Ages, p. 301

Even in my grief, I am learning to rest in the promises of God. I am learning to trust that His plan is perfect, even when I don’t understand it. I am learning to carry on with joy, knowing that one day, the pain will be replaced with eternal joy.

A Call to Persevere in Faith

As I carry on, I am reminded that each day brings me one step closer to that glorious reunion. I press forward, holding on to the blessed hope. Until the day I see your face again, Justin, and the blessed face of our Redeemer, I will live with purpose and faith.

If you are walking through grief today, hold on to the promises of God. Remember that He is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Lean into His strength and trust that He is working all things together for your good.

“Until then, with joy I’ll carry on.”

The Clay Pot Misfit

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From Sorrow to Renewal: Embracing New Seasons in Grief (Part 2)

Posted on March 8, 2025 by Vanna

Forward: Trusting God’s Hand in the Changing Seasons of Grief

As we continue our journey through grief and renewal, we are reminded that change is often difficult but necessary. Healing does not mean we erase the past or ignore our pain—it means we allow God to lead us forward into a new season.

Isaiah 43:19 reminds us:
“See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.”

Last time, we reflected on how God can bring renewal in our sorrow. In this part of our devotional, we will explore how grief can lead us to unexpected purposes and new callings. Through the story of Sojourner Truth—a woman who endured immense loss but found strength in God—we will see how even the deepest sorrow can be used for divine transformation.

Ellen G. White wrote, “The way that leads to eternal life is not smooth and easy. It is rugged and steep. But Jesus has traveled that way before us, and He has marked it by His footprints.” (The Desire of Ages, p. 667).

As we move forward, let us trust that Jesus is walking with us, guiding our steps from sorrow to renewal.

A Devotional on Grief and Purpose

Grief has a way of breaking us open. It forces us to confront pain we never expected, reshaping our hearts and our future. But God, in His mercy, does not leave us shattered. He uses our grief to guide us into a new purpose, one we may never have considered.

Isaiah 43:19 tells us that God is always at work, creating new paths even when we feel lost. What once seemed like an ending can become the beginning of something profound.

The Story of Sojourner Truth: A Life Redeemed for a Greater Purpose

Sojourner Truth was born into slavery in 1797, experiencing sorrow from an early age. She was separated from her family, endured physical and emotional pain, and lost children to the inhumanity of slavery. Her grief could have consumed her, leaving her bitter and broken. Instead, she turned to God, finding solace in His promises.

In the midst of her suffering, Sojourner Truth received a divine vision—an assurance that she was not alone and that she was called to something greater. With faith as her guide, she walked away from slavery and never looked back. But freedom was not the end of her journey; it was the beginning. She became a powerful voice for justice, speaking boldly against slavery and advocating for women’s rights.

Her grief did not vanish, but God transformed it into a mission. She once said, “I will not allow my life’s light to be determined by the darkness around me.” This is the essence of renewal—choosing to let God’s light lead us, even in the midst of sorrow.

Ellen G. White echoes this in her writings: “Out of the darkest hour will come the brightest light. God has His purposes to fulfill, and He will work through those who trust Him.” (Testimonies for the Church, vol. 5, p. 512).

Sojourner Truth’s story is a testament to the power of faith in grief. She did not let loss define her. Instead, she allowed God to use her pain to bring change to the world.

Moving from Sorrow to Purpose

Like Sojourner Truth, we all experience grief that threatens to paralyze us. But God whispers, “I am doing a new thing.” Even when we cannot yet see it, He is working in our pain, molding us into people with renewed purpose.

Here are some key truths to remember:

  • Grief does not mean the end of your purpose. Sojourner Truth’s life did not stop when she lost her loved ones. Instead, she found a greater calling.
  • God walks with you through sorrow. Ellen G. White wrote, “In the day of trouble He will be your refuge; and as you seek His presence, His peace will be with you.” (The Ministry of Healing, p. 249).
  • Your pain can become someone else’s blessing. Just as Sojourner Truth’s suffering led to a life of advocacy, your journey through grief may be the encouragement someone else needs.

A Prayer for Strength in the Season of Grief

Father, I lay my grief before You, knowing that You are working even in my sorrow. Help me to trust that You are making a way, even when I do not see it. Let my pain be transformed into purpose, and may I find renewal in Your presence. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Final Encouragement

Grief does not have to be the final chapter. God is always doing a new thing, even when the path is unclear. Like Sojourner Truth, may we find the courage to step forward, trusting that God is leading us into something greater.

— The Clay Pot Misfit

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From Sorrow to Renewal: Embracing New Seasons in Grief

Posted on March 8, 2025 by Vanna

Forward: Finding Hope in the Changing Seasons of Grief

March is a season of transition—winter’s cold grip begins to fade, and signs of new life emerge. The same is true for grief. Though loss can feel like a never-ending winter, God promises that new things are on the horizon. This month, we will explore how grief has seasons, how healing does not mean forgetting, and how we can embrace renewal while honoring what has been lost.

Isaiah 43:19 reminds us:
“See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.”

God does not leave us in our sorrow forever. Just as He renews the earth, He can bring renewal to our hearts. This month, we will reflect on how God makes a way for healing, how faith sustains us through grief’s transitions, and how embracing change can be a path to peace.

A Devotional on Grief and Renewal

Grief often feels like winter—cold, isolating, and seemingly endless. But even in the deepest sorrow, God is at work. Renewal doesn’t mean forgetting or leaving grief behind; it means allowing hope to take root again.

Isaiah 43:19 is a powerful reminder that God is always doing something new, even when we cannot yet see it. It speaks to the promise of transformation, the assurance that He is making a way where there seems to be none. This is not about ignoring grief but about trusting that, in time, renewal will come.

The Story of Harriet Jacobs: From Captivity to Freedom

Harriet Jacobs knew grief intimately. Born into slavery in 1813, she endured unimaginable hardship. After being pursued relentlessly by her enslaver, she made the painful decision to hide in a small attic space for nearly seven years to protect her children and plan for their freedom.

For Harriet, grief was more than loss—it was the sorrow of separation, injustice, and suffering with no visible end. Yet, even in the darkness of that cramped attic, she clung to hope. She wrote in her autobiography, Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl, that faith sustained her during those years. She could not yet see the path to freedom, but she believed that God was working.

When the opportunity finally came, Harriet escaped to the North and was reunited with her children. Her grief did not disappear, but she found renewal in her newfound purpose—advocating for the end of slavery and fighting for the rights of women and children. Her story reminds us that even in our darkest seasons, God is making a way.

Moving from Sorrow to Renewal

Harriet’s story mirrors what many of us experience in grief. The pain may feel endless, but change is coming. Renewal does not mean forgetting those we’ve lost or the pain we’ve endured. Instead, it means allowing God to bring healing, purpose, and new growth.

If you are in a season of grief, remember:

  • God is working even when you can’t see it. Harriet couldn’t see freedom while in hiding, but she trusted in its promise.
  • Healing takes time. Just as winter slowly gives way to spring, grief shifts gradually.
  • God’s renewal often brings new purpose. Harriet’s sorrow became the foundation of her mission. Your grief may one day become a testimony to help others.

A Prayer for Renewal

Father, I bring my grief before You. Sometimes, it feels like an unending winter. But I trust Your promise—that You are doing a new thing in my life. Even when I don’t perceive it, I know You are making a way. Help me embrace the renewal You are bringing, and give me peace in the transition. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Final Encouragement

Grief does not have to be the end of the story. Just as Harriet Jacobs’ years of sorrow led to a life of purpose, your grief can lead to renewal. This March, may we open our hearts to the new things God is doing, trusting that He is making a way in the wilderness of our sorrow.

— The Clay Pot Misfit

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Finding Peace in the Midst of Grief – Part 4

Posted on February 28, 2025 by Vanna

Scripture: Philippians 4:7 (NIV)
“And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

Grief can shake us to our core, leaving us feeling lost and overwhelmed. Yet, Philippians 4:7 reminds us that God’s peace is not bound by human logic. It surpasses understanding, guarding our hearts and minds in ways we may not fully grasp. Even in sorrow, God’s presence provides a shelter of peace.

The Story of Charlotte Forten Grimké: Finding Peace in Purpose

Charlotte Forten Grimké was born free in 1837 to a prominent Black abolitionist family in Philadelphia. She grew up with an unshakable sense of justice, dedicating her life to education and equality. But behind her strong public persona, Charlotte battled deep personal grief.

She lost both of her parents at a young age, and the weight of racial injustice left her emotionally exhausted. She often wrote in her journals about struggling with depression and sorrow. However, instead of allowing grief to consume her, she turned to faith and purpose.

During the Civil War, Charlotte became one of the first Black teachers to educate freed slaves in the South. She traveled to South Carolina’s Sea Islands, where she taught formerly enslaved children and adults to read and write. The conditions were harsh, and she often faced illness and emotional distress, yet she found peace in knowing she was fulfilling God’s calling.

Despite her grief and struggles, Charlotte clung to her faith. Her work was not just about literacy—it was about restoring dignity and hope. The peace of God strengthened her in ways that defied understanding, allowing her to push forward despite adversity.

Peace Through Purpose

Charlotte’s story teaches us that peace in grief does not always mean the absence of pain. Rather, it is the presence of God sustaining us as we move forward. Sometimes, peace comes through purpose—through serving others, through leaning on faith, and through trusting that God’s plan is greater than our sorrow.

If you are grieving today, know that God is near. Just as He carried Charlotte through the loss of her parents and the struggles of her work, He will carry you. His peace is not fragile or fleeting—it is steadfast and strong. Even when you don’t understand, trust that He is guarding your heart.

A Prayer for Peace in Grief

Heavenly Father, in my sorrow, I seek Your peace. Help me to trust in Your promises even when my heart is heavy. Just as You sustained Charlotte Forten Grimké, sustain me in my grief. Guard my heart and mind with Your presence, and lead me to the peace that only You can provide. Amen.

Final Encouragement

Grief may feel overwhelming, but God’s peace is stronger. The same peace that carried Charlotte Forten Grimké through hardship is available to you today. No matter what you are facing, rest in the truth that God’s peace will sustain you through every storm.

— The Clay Pot Misfit

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Finding Peace in the Midst of Grief – Part 3

Posted on February 28, 2025 by Vanna

Scripture: Philippians 4:7 (NIV)
“And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

Grief can feel like an unrelenting storm, leaving us searching for shelter in a world that feels shaken. When sorrow grips us, peace can seem impossible. Yet, Philippians 4:7 reminds us that God’s peace is not dependent on circumstances—it is a divine promise that transcends human understanding. Even in our darkest moments, God offers a refuge for our hearts and minds.

The Story of Father Augustus Tolton: A Pioneer of Faith and Perseverance

Augustus Tolton was born into slavery in Missouri in 1854. During the Civil War, his mother risked everything to escape with him and his siblings, crossing the Mississippi River to freedom. Despite facing intense racism and rejection, young Augustus had a deep calling to the priesthood. No seminary in the United States would accept a Black student, but Tolton refused to give up. With the help of supportive clergy, he traveled to Rome, where he completed his studies and was ordained in 1886—the first openly recognized Black Catholic priest in the U.S.

When he returned to America, Father Tolton faced constant opposition. Many white parishioners refused to accept him, and even some within the Church worked against him. But despite the hostility, he remained faithful. He devoted himself to serving the Black Catholic community in Chicago, offering hope, dignity, and faith to those who had long been marginalized.

Even in the face of rejection, Father Tolton carried a profound peace that could only come from God. He understood that peace was not about an easy life but about unwavering trust in Christ. His ministry flourished, touching countless lives, and his legacy continues to inspire today.

Peace in the Midst of Opposition

Father Tolton’s story teaches us that peace is not the absence of hardship but the presence of God in our struggles. Grief, rejection, and suffering do not have the final word. Just as Tolton clung to his faith, we too can trust that God’s peace will guard our hearts.

Maybe you are in a season of grief—mourning a loved one, struggling with loss, or feeling the weight of the world pressing down on you. The same God who strengthened Father Tolton in the face of adversity is with you. His peace is not just a fleeting feeling but a shield that guards your heart and mind, sustaining you when you feel like you cannot go on.

A Prayer for Peace in Grief

Heavenly Father, in my sorrow, I need Your peace. When my heart is heavy, remind me that You are near. Just as You sustained Father Augustus Tolton in the face of rejection, sustain me in my grief. Let Your peace guard my heart and mind. Help me to trust in Your promises, even when I do not understand. Amen.

Final Encouragement

Grief can make the world feel unsteady, but God’s peace stands firm. The same peace that carried Father Tolton through rejection and hardship is available to you today. No matter what you are facing, may you find rest in knowing that God’s peace will sustain you, even in the darkest of times.

— The Clay Pot Misfit

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Finding Peace in the Midst of Grief – Part 2

Posted on February 25, 2025 by Vanna

Scripture: Philippians 4:7 (NIV)
“And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

Grief is not something we simply move past—it’s something we learn to live with. In the depths of sorrow, peace can feel out of reach, as if it belongs to someone else but not us. Yet, Philippians 4:7 reminds us that the peace of God is different from what the world offers. It is a divine assurance that our hearts and minds will be guarded even when life feels unbearable. This peace does not come from our own strength, but from trusting in the One who carries us through our suffering.

The Story of Jonathan Daniels: A Martyr for Justice

Jonathan Daniels was a white seminarian from Keene, New Hampshire, who answered the call to fight for racial justice during the Civil Rights Movement. In 1965, he traveled to Alabama to help Black residents register to vote and to stand alongside them in the fight against segregation. His faith compelled him to act, believing that Christ’s love demanded justice for the oppressed.

Daniels was arrested during a protest and spent time in jail with fellow activists, including 17-year-old Ruby Sales. Upon their release, they stopped at a store to buy a cold drink. Suddenly, a white man with a shotgun confronted them. In a split second, Jonathan Daniels pushed Ruby out of the way and took the shotgun blast himself, dying instantly. He was only 26 years old.

His sacrifice was an act of Christ-like love, a selfless giving of his life for another. Ruby Sales, the young woman he saved, later said that it was Jonathan’s deep faith that gave him peace, even in the face of danger. He trusted that no matter what happened, God’s peace would sustain him.

Peace That Transcends Understanding

Jonathan Daniels’ story reminds us that even in moments of grief, fear, and uncertainty, God’s peace is present. His actions reflected a faith that went beyond words—one that rested in the assurance of Christ’s love. The grief of his loss was deep, yet his sacrifice was not in vain. His legacy lives on in those who continue the work of justice, including Ruby Sales, who became a theologian and civil rights activist.

Like Jonathan, we may face seasons of deep sorrow. We may mourn loved ones, shattered dreams, or the brokenness of the world around us. But the peace that Paul speaks of in Philippians 4:7 is not based on circumstances—it is a supernatural gift from God. Even in our grief, we can trust that His peace will guard our hearts.

A Prayer for Peace in Grief

Heavenly Father, in the midst of sorrow, I long for Your peace. When my heart is heavy with grief, remind me that You are near. Just as You sustained Jonathan Daniels in his final moments, sustain me in my struggles. Let Your peace guard my heart and mind. Help me trust in Your goodness, even when I do not understand. Amen.

Final Encouragement

Grief may shake us, but it does not have to destroy us. The peace of God is available to all who trust in Him. Jonathan Daniels understood this peace, and his life stands as a testimony to the power of faith in action. No matter what you are facing, may you find comfort in knowing that God’s peace will sustain you, even in the darkest of times.

— The Clay Pot Misfit

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Finding Peace in the Midst of Grief

Posted on February 23, 2025 by Vanna

Scripture: Philippians 4:7 (NIV)
“And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

Grief can feel like an endless storm—overwhelming, consuming, and impossible to escape. It unsettles the soul, leaving us searching for answers in the midst of pain. But Philippians 4:7 offers a divine promise: the peace of God, a peace beyond human understanding, will guard our hearts and minds. This is not just a momentary comfort; it is a supernatural assurance that even in our sorrow, God holds us close.

The Story of Lucy Craft Laney: Finding Peace in Purpose

Lucy Craft Laney is not a household name, but her impact on education and racial justice was profound. Born in 1854 to formerly enslaved parents, Laney grew up witnessing the struggles of her people in post-Civil War America. As a young woman, she dreamed of becoming a teacher, believing that education was the key to freedom.

But her journey was not without grief. She faced rejection, financial hardship, and the devastating loss of friends and family members to illness and racial violence. At times, the weight of sorrow seemed unbearable. Yet, Laney refused to let grief consume her. Instead, she clung to God’s peace, trusting that He had a greater purpose for her pain.

She went on to found the Haines Normal and Industrial Institute in Augusta, Georgia, providing education to Black children who had been denied opportunities elsewhere. She faced threats and opposition but remained steadfast, believing that her mission was God-ordained. Even in the face of loss, she found peace in knowing that her work was bringing light to others.

Laney’s life teaches us that peace does not come from avoiding grief but from trusting that God’s plan is greater than our pain.

Holding Onto God’s Peace in Your Grief

Like Lucy Craft Laney, we will all experience moments of loss and sorrow. Whether grieving the death of a loved one, the loss of a dream, or the pain of injustice, we have a choice—let grief consume us or allow God’s peace to sustain us. The peace He offers is not based on circumstances; it transcends understanding.

A Prayer for Peace in Grief

Heavenly Father, in the midst of my sorrow, I seek Your peace. Guard my heart and mind, and help me to trust that You are with me. Just as You sustained Lucy Craft Laney through grief and hardship, sustain me in my struggles. Let Your peace be my refuge and strength. Amen.

Final Encouragement

Grief may feel overwhelming, but you are not alone. Just as Lucy Craft Laney found peace in God’s purpose for her life, you too can rest in His promises. His peace will sustain you, strengthen you, and remind you that even in sorrow, you are deeply loved.

— The Clay Pot Misfit

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God’s Presence in Our Grief (Part 4)

Posted on February 22, 2025 by Vanna

“I will be glad and rejoice in your love, for you saw my affliction and knew the anguish of my soul.”

Grief can touch every part of our lives—often leaving us feeling isolated and overwhelmed. Yet even in our deepest sorrow, God’s love remains a steadfast presence. Psalm 31:7 (NIV) reminds us:

This promise assures us that our pain does not go unnoticed; God sees every tear and feels every heartache. In the midst of our grief, we can draw strength from the lives of those who have journeyed through profound suffering and emerged with renewed hope.

A Story of Resilience in the Face of Loss: Frederick Douglass

Frederick Douglass, born into the harsh reality of slavery, experienced loss from the very start. Separated from his mother at an early age and forced to endure the dehumanizing cruelty of a system built on oppression, Douglass knew grief intimately. The sorrow of a childhood ripped apart by the institution of slavery could have easily broken his spirit.

Instead, Douglass nurtured within him a burning desire for freedom and dignity—a hope that was not only his personal salvation but also a beacon for others. Despite the unrelenting pain of loss and injustice, he clung to the belief that his suffering was not in vain. In his quest for liberation, Douglass found strength in the conviction that God saw his affliction and understood the anguish of his soul.

His journey from bondage to becoming one of the most eloquent voices for freedom is a testament to the power of resilience. Douglass’s life reminds us that even when grief seems unbearable, God’s comforting presence offers a way to rise above despair and reclaim hope.

Trusting in God Through Our Pain

Frederick Douglass’s story teaches us that our grief, no matter how deep, is met with divine compassion. God’s promise in Psalm 31:7 assures us that He recognizes our affliction and is always with us. Even when our hearts are heavy, His love can be the light that guides us toward healing and restoration.

A Prayer for Those in Grief

Heavenly Father, in the midst of my sorrow, remind me that You see my affliction and understand the depths of my pain. Grant me the strength to overcome my grief and the courage to seek hope in Your loving presence. Help me to rise above my challenges and find renewal in Your grace. Amen.

Closing Thoughts

Grief is a journey that transforms us, and while the pain may linger, we are never alone. Just as Frederick Douglass found the courage to break free from the chains of sorrow, we too can lean on God’s promise and let His love carry us through. Hold fast to the truth of Psalm 31:7—your pain is seen, your sorrow is known, and God’s love is your constant companion.

— The Clay Pot Misfit

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God’s Presence in Our Grief (Part 3)

Posted on February 21, 2025 by Vanna

Grief is a journey that shapes us, sometimes in ways we never expected. It can feel like an endless night, but God’s love is the dawn that always comes. Even when sorrow weighs heavy, Psalm 31:7 (NIV) reminds us of God’s constant presence:

“I will be glad and rejoice in your love, for you saw my affliction and knew the anguish of my soul.”

God doesn’t just acknowledge our pain—He understands it. He doesn’t just see our grief—He walks through it with us. And through His love, we find strength, even in the darkest moments.

A Story of Strength in Loss: Nelson Mandela

One of the greatest examples of resilience in the face of suffering is Nelson Mandela. While not American, his fight for justice and endurance through loss deeply impacted the world, including the Civil Rights Movement in the U.S.

Mandela spent 27 years in prison, unjustly punished for standing against apartheid in South Africa. During those years, he endured the unimaginable—separation from his family, the deaths of loved ones, and brutal treatment. The grief of missing his children grow up, the pain of losing his mother while behind bars, and the loneliness of confinement could have broken him.

But Mandela found strength in faith. He once said, “I have walked that long road to freedom. I have tried not to falter; I have made missteps along the way. But I have discovered the secret that after climbing a great hill, one only finds that there are many more hills to climb.”

Though his situation was unjust, he trusted that God saw his affliction and the anguish of his soul. He allowed his suffering to shape him into a leader of peace, not hatred. Instead of becoming bitter, he chose forgiveness, hope, and perseverance.

Trusting God in Our Own Grief

Mandela’s story teaches us that grief does not have to be the end of our story. God does not let suffering be wasted—He can use even our hardest seasons for good. Psalm 31:7 reassures us that:

  1. God acknowledges our pain – “You saw my affliction.” Our suffering does not go unnoticed.
  2. God understands our sorrow – “You knew the anguish of my soul.” He knows the depth of our grief better than anyone.
  3. God’s love sustains us – “I will be glad and rejoice in your love.” His love gives us the strength to move forward, even when it feels impossible.

A Prayer for Those Still Grieving

Heavenly Father, I come to You in my grief, seeking Your comfort. Thank You for seeing my pain and understanding my sorrow. Help me to trust in Your love and find strength in Your presence. Carry me through this season, just as You have carried so many before me. Amen.

Closing Thoughts

Grief is heavy, but God’s love is stronger. Like Nelson Mandela, we can hold onto faith even in the darkest moments, knowing that God sees us, understands us, and will never leave us. If you are grieving today, remember Psalm 31:7—you are not alone.

— The Clay Pot Misfit

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